What’s my type? Seven inspired archetypes.
At its core, my degree of attraction to someone is informed by how they communicate, treat others, treat themselves, and navigate the abstractions of our world. The more forthcoming, even-keeled, and growth-minded someone is the greater their appeal. And I'm
Decisiveness, Communication & Phenomenal Sex.
Originally written & posted in December 2022, this from-the-hip post - as they all are - was written quickly and without any semblance of editing. If you’ve followed me for some time, you’ll remember a post in my old blog titled That New
Approximately 26 things a man can do to turn me on.
Originally written & posted in September, 2022. Welcome to the first in a series of lists delineating what you can do to make me fall head over heels in lust. 🥰 I think you’ll be surprised by some of the
Let’s talk about… Marriage?
Believe it or not, the subject of marriage and its infinite forms and complexities is one of the many common threads I share with my clients. After all, I was married for ten years and know what it feels like
Five Date Ideas
Here are five a few of my more unique ideas for 2023! I will add to this list over Memorial Day weekend, and within it you will glean excellent insight into what we might enjoy together. While I remain an eternal fan
What differentiates a bad client from a good one?
Originally posted December 2022 "Relationship" is a word that carries an endless number of connotations. It can be used to describe the bond we share with our spouse or our children (or yours - I'm single and childless), or our friends. It
Gray Skies, Weirdos & Music.
This from-the-hip post - as they all are - was written quickly and without any semblance of editing. One of my favorite ways to beat these Chicago winter blues is to indulge in a minimum of one staycation every thirty days between the
The fearousal phenomenon.
If I had a dollar for every time one of my regular clients confessed that he was initially intimidated by me, I’d
Edging is about intimacy.
It's no secret that I harbor a great love for playing a man's body like an instrument. To deliberately stoke his flame and experiment with how many times I can bring him to the edge and back is the most
Night of a Thousand Pleasures
This true story was originally featured on my blog's 2021 iteration, before I accidentally deleted everything as I went off on hiatus. I found a copy of it by chance, and am reposting! Chapter One “I’m nearly ready …” His pulse quickens at