to the girlfriend exploration.

Hey, stranger. I’m glad you’re here! And now that you are, we’re one step closer to walking into each others lives. 

I’m Alyx, and since 2011, I’ve had the honor of building enduring connections with kindred spirits. I love to write and I love to lust, and I love serving as a sensual catalyst for genuine connection and erotic evolution.

I touch on all of this in my new free Substack blog. On Sex & Donuts is an exploration of the role emotional vulnerability plays in intimacy, eroticism, and autonomy.♡

Established and easily researched, I’m a part time companion available for dates in Chicago. I don’t tour and am unavailable for FMTYs until 3.15.24.

My circle of clientele is tight and well-vetted and I harbor a particular affinity for men who’ve never done this before. Being someone’s first companion is the most erotic honor.

My foray into this realm came naturally; I’ve always been drawn to cerebral sexuality, and seduction has long been my favorite game. 

Moreover, being Alyx is in keeping with the entirety of my career trajectory. From social work and UX research to personal training and my two newest ventures, everything I do is rooted in building connections, enriching lives, and empowering people.

And because you’re here, there’s a good chance your life could use a dose of enrichment and excitement. Of seduction and understanding.

A skilled and well oiled hand? Full lips spilling filthy utterances? Yes. A beautiful lover whom you’re proud to have both on your arm and in your bed? Of course. 

But maybe you want more.

Don’t let my striking 5’8″ kettlebell athlete’s physique fool you.

When we are together, you will feel more than my firm curves and the voracity of a mature woman who knows what she wants.

You will also feel a degree of warmth, openness, and genuine investment in you that – when paired with everything else – positions me your ideal partner in exploration. (Have you read Night of a Thousand Pleasures?)

I know who I am, see the world in vivid color, and live out loud and unabashedly. Giving someone the power and space to do the same – to embrace their most authentic self and desires – makes me happy. 🙂

Curious? Ready to dive deeper? Then click the button below to feel what comes next. Hint: Should we connect amidst my truncated schedule, what we share will be so much more than a GFE.


Head over to Substack for my newest blog: On Sex & Donuts