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Hey, stranger. I’m glad you’re here! And now that you are, we’re one step closer to walking into each others lives. 

I’m Alyx, and since 2011, I’ve had the honor of building enduring bonds with kindred spirits. I love to write and I love to seduce, and I love serving as a catalyst for the expansion of erotic horizons. 

Established and easily researched, I’m a part-time companion available for intimate dates in Chicago. I am currently unavailable for FMTY dates. 

My circle of clients is tight and well-vetted and I harbor a particular affinity for men who’ve never done this before. To be someone’s first is an honor.

My foray into companionship came naturally; I’ve always been drawn to cerebral sexuality, the seduction of accomplished men has long been a favorite game, and I adore a well matched undulation of erotic power.

To ebb and flow with the right person is divine.

Moreover, and perhaps less pruriently, Being Alyx is entirely in keeping with the rest of my career path. From social work and user research to kettlebell coaching and my current ventures, I’m passionate about building connections and empowering people.

At forty, I’m a healthy, passionate, and beautiful woman thriving in duality: an exploration-forward girlfriend who values autonomy and a driven entrepreneur thriving in dynamic, innovative spaces.

The energy that radiates to others? Boldly invigorating, or so I’m told. You’ll also find I’m quite feral these days. 

And because you’re here, there’s a good chance you could use a dose of seduction and excitement.

Of undulation.

A skilled and well oiled hand? Full lips spilling filthy utterances? Yes. A rebelliously chic lover whom you’re proud to have both on your arm and in your bed? Of course. 

But perhaps you want more.

When we’re together, will also feel a degree of warmth, openness, and active interest in you that – when paired with everything else – positions me your ideal partner in exploration. (Have you read He Knew That I Knew His Kryptonite?)

I know who I am, see the world in vivid color, and live unabashedly. And giving someone the power and space to do the same – to embrace their most authentic self and lean into their desires without fear of judgement – makes me happy. 🙂

Curious? Ready to dive deeper? Then click the button below to feel what comes next. Hint: It will be so much more than a GFE.