Welcome to the first in a series of lists delineating what you can do to make me fall head over heels in lust. 🥰 I think you’ll be surprised by some of the things that makes me tick!

1. Trust me with the parts of yourself you can’t share with anyone else.

2. Communicate thoughtfully.

3. Kiss me all over.

4. Let me gently tie you and tease you within an inch of your capacity.

5. Moan.

6. Tell me that you’re nervous because it’s our first date, then let me assuage your jitters.

7. Fifty dates later, tell me that you still get butterflies when you think of me. (And that you fucking love it.)

8. Kiss my neck in the heat of the moment.

9. Grab my firm ass with equally firm conviction.

10. Ply me with champagne.

11. Let me ply you with champagne ____jobs.

12. Protest when I declare my intent to spoil you. (But allow me follow through with it anyway.)

13. Share your favorite music with me.

14. Plan our Santorini vacation.

15. Take a business call while I tease you from the bed.

16. Go camping or glamping with me.

17. Take me riding on the open range. (I grew up competing in the equestrian sports of eventing and of dressage!)

18. Sport a lingering hint of soap instead of a cloying cloud of cologne.

19. At least pretend to tolerate my sense of humor.

20. Put on your glasses so that you can read the menu.

21. Inspire me to write.

22. Dad jokes. Lots of dad jokes.

23. Invest in my investments.

24. Teach me something new.

25. Be unequivocally you, idiosyncrasies and all.