The Old “Vanilla vs. Kink” Debate
A heavily recirculated Twitter debate that always catches my eye is one that centers around whether or not kink is a necessary part of a healthy sex life. "Isn't vanilla enough?" ask some. Others adamantly believe that trying new things
Fucking My Boss
This true story was originally featured on my blog's 2021 iteration, before I accidentally deleted everything as I went off on hiatus. I found a copy of it by chance, and am reposting! It felt especially important to keep this story alive,
My love affair with Sacai Satchel.
A few years ago, I was obsessed with the idea of collecting iconic designer bags. Chanel, YSL (or - I suppose now - Saint Laurent) and Celine topped my list, and I can't tell you how many hours I spent
5 Times: Client Indiscretion Edition
This post was originally featured on my blog's 2021 iteration, before I accidentally deleted everything as I went off on hiatus. I found a copy of it by chance, and am copying / pasting it here! My clients expect discretion from me
A $40,000 dress covered in red wine.
Do you know the story about the exact moment at which the bar inside Nordstrom on Michigan Avenue instituted their "no taking your alcohol with you while you shop" policy? As the tale goes, a very unlucky someone tripped, gesticulated,
Welcoming our day.
Tell me: Do you have a morning routine? I do, and I feel like it is one of the reasons my life today is more focused and joyous than it was when I originally blogged about this in late 2020. Since
The girlfriend you were never allowed.
In my experience spanning twelve on-again, off-again years as a companion, I often reflect on why my clients choose to pursue me in particular. Of course, some simply want to get laid. But those are the one-offs in my world,
The art of edging.
The prolonging of pleasure begins well before we meet in the flesh. Before our eyes first lock in the hotel lobby. Before I, with wordless discretion, join you in the elevator to begin our ascent. It is incepted with word one
What is It?
HUSTL-UP is a highly vetted peer-to-peer marketplace built by and for sex workers that promotes a positive sense of community by harnessing our industry's innate powers of innovation and independence. I am taking my time with the development, enjoying the methodology
One Night, A Few Years Ago
This true story was originally featured on my blog's 2021 iteration, before I accidentally deleted everything as I went off on hiatus. I found a copy of it by chance, and am reposting! Part of me wants to claim that it started