Guess Who’s Turning 39?
Updated May 14, 2023. With my 39th birthday on the horizon, I find myself reflecting on the last twelve months. They were full of positive inflection points and sustainable opportunities for growth both within and outside the context of Alyx, and
Let’s talk about… Marriage?
Believe it or not, the subject of marriage and its infinite forms and complexities is one of the many common threads I share with my clients. After all, I was married for ten years and know what it feels like
He knew he was in trouble. (video)
He knew he was in trouble when my devilish giggle appeared. Dirty utterances and intuitive touch. Teasing and aching yet undeniably light. He knew he was in trouble, and he fucking loved it.
Five Date Ideas
Visit my Substack - On Sex & Donuts - for an updated list! Here are five a few of my more unique ideas! I originally posted this in 2023 plus two new dates finally added on 2.5.24! This list provides you with
What differentiates a bad client from a good one?
Originally posted December 2022 "Relationship" is a word that carries an endless number of connotations. It can be used to describe the bond we share with our spouse or our children (or yours - I'm single and childless), or our friends. It
Night of a Thousand Pleasures
This story was originally featured on my blog's 2021 iteration, before I accidentally deleted everything as I went off on hiatus. I found a copy of it by chance, and am reposting. It felt especially important to keep this story alive,
Gray Skies, Weirdos & Music.
This from-the-hip post - as they all are - was written quickly and without any semblance of editing. One of my favorite ways to beat these Chicago winter blues is to indulge in a minimum of one staycation every thirty days between the
Edging is about intimacy.
It's no secret that I harbor a great love for playing a man's body like an instrument. To deliberately stoke his flame and experiment with how many times I can bring him to the edge and back is the most
“You are the antidote to life.”
"You are the antidote to life," he said moments after. We shared a salty kiss, and then he held me close. And as my head rested on his chest, I could feel an absence of weight. I was happy for
An exercise in self-discovery.
Think back to the last time you were able to breathe deeply into an intimate experience with someone. The last time you were able to release anxiety and overthink, be true to yourself, and embrace the physical and emotional sensations