What differentiates a bad client from a good one?
Originally posted December 2022 "Relationship" is a word that carries an endless number of connotations. It can be used to describe the bond we share with our spouse or our children (or yours - I'm single and childless), or our friends. It
Night of a Thousand Pleasures
This story was originally featured on my blog's 2021 iteration, before I accidentally deleted everything as I went off on hiatus. I found a copy of it by chance, and am reposting. It felt especially important to keep this story alive,
Gray Skies, Weirdos & Music.
This from-the-hip post - as they all are - was written quickly and without any semblance of editing. One of my favorite ways to beat these Chicago winter blues is to indulge in a minimum of one staycation every thirty days between the
An exercise in self-discovery.
Think back to the last time you were able to breathe deeply into an intimate experience with someone. The last time you were able to release anxiety and overthink, be true to yourself, and embrace the physical and emotional sensations
The Old “Vanilla vs. Kink” Debate
A heavily recirculated Twitter debate that always catches my eye is one that centers around whether or not kink is a necessary part of a healthy sex life. "Isn't vanilla enough?" ask some. Others adamantly believe that trying new things
The art of edging.
The prolonging of pleasure begins well before we meet in the flesh. Before our eyes first lock in the hotel lobby. Before I, with wordless discretion, join you in the elevator to begin our ascent. It is incepted with word one